someone tells you they're your friend, but they're never there when you need them they only notice you when they need something always treating you like a second or a plan B but you still care about them, and you miss them even when they clearly don't deserve it.
Sometimes, there is someone you love (friendship is love too) . They might not love you back. You'll be sad you will desire more from them. But there was a point in my life, where I tried to keep distance. It was hurting too much. But really missing them is shit too. Don't run after them. It's okay if you go to them once in a while. But friendship can only exist with both sides. So if he/she won't go to you as well, don't try too hard to keep the friendship. Time might help you find other friends or stopping the crap feel but you don't need to stop loving them. I can tell you whatever I want I know you need to experience it by yourself to find your own way of dealing with it, otherwise life would be boring.
i know exactly what you mean, that's how i feel right now about this guy i like...liked... idk anymore how to feel towards him...but I'm sorry about that. HOpe it gets better (and I don't mean to sound so stereotypical when i say this)
Anytime someone points out that they're your friend, you should immediately be Suspicious. And they probably aren't really your friend at all. The term friend is used way too loosely, I personally have 2 friends. The rest are just acquaintances. I'm sympathetic though, I hope what I say helps though, wether you just take it into consideration or actually utilize it is up to you.
But there was a point in my life, where I tried to keep distance. It was hurting too much. But really missing them is shit too.
Don't run after them. It's okay if you go to them once in a while. But friendship can only exist with both sides. So if he/she won't go to you as well, don't try too hard to keep the friendship. Time might help you find other friends or stopping the crap feel but you don't need to stop loving them.
I can tell you whatever I want I know you need to experience it by yourself to find your own way of dealing with it, otherwise life would be boring.
And they probably aren't really your friend at all. The term friend is used way too loosely, I personally have 2 friends. The rest are just acquaintances.
I'm sympathetic though, I hope what I say helps though, wether you just take it into consideration or actually utilize it is up to you.
right now. Man; I'm
sorry.